I get lots of emails like this through my website. I never reply to them because they just seem like spam. Thoughts?

i’m interesting about cello lesson.
but my house is burbank. i cannot go to your studio.
can you came to my house for cello lesson?
I want to know the tuition?
can you send to email me? xxxxxxxxx@live.com
thanks.

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  1. I am. Although most of my students are bright, there is a fairly strong contingent of people, especially in LA, that do not have a good grasp of the English language. If they call me and then I email them, this is typical of the sort of limping patter of their written replies. Amazing, eh?

    In this economy, I don't want to turn students away, but this seems like a risk to respond to.

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  2. OK, then. Enough correspondence to build a repertoire of "reasonable legitimate" responses, and follow the cardinal rule of blind dates: the first meeting/interview must occur in a neutral, public place.

    The more I think about it, the more I think you need to move to, I dunno, somewhere else.

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  3. This could happen… anywhere. But you know what to do. Send an email back, or meet them in public for a few. You could determine from that meeting why they can't meet you at your studio possibly.

    Be careful!

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  4. C'mon Emily. You're person who has been teaching me to accept my emotions without judgment – what does your gut tell you?

    This has assault written all over it. Somebody who has the means to continue cello lessons likely also has the education to try just a little bit harder than they did.

    Refer him to any competent male teacher that you know. That will be the end of him.

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  5. The use of the word "tuition" twigs my nigerian-check-cashing-scam-dar. I doubt this person even lives in the US, let alone Burbank. I'd give him and email back and see how long he takes to ask if he can send you a ginormous check if you could only deposit it and give him 10%. On the odd chance that it is an actual human, I wouldn't have the first meeting in his home.

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  6. That is a scam … I've gotten it before … really frustrating that those people exist and that they think it's ok to do what they do…

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  7. Oh, I would never email them back. If it is a scam, then they know that their email has reached me, and the real spam assault begins.

    MT: Your assumption is generally true, but again, in LA, I have had many students (always temporary, never lasting more than 3 months) who really struggle with the language and common sense. One of my current students writes me almost completely incomprehensible emails…we always have to volley back and forth to make sure I know what they mean.

    NC: "Tuition" is right. Sounds like someone who is translating from French, oui?

    ML: Yep. That's the conclusion I came to, in the end. But we shall see if it escalates. Having a fairly public inbox online nets me some pretty interesting specimens.

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